You obviously don’t want to nitpick at problems in your relationship or bring them to light, but sometimes they are just blatant. It can be the way you talk to your partner or in this case it is all about you or your partner’s body language.
Your body language can raise some red flags but they are all different in each relationship. One movement could be a red flag in one relationship but another movement could just be another day in a couple’s relationship.
Lack of eye contact: Eye contact is very intimate and important in a relationship, so when your partner starts to avoid it may be time to call things off or have a sit down.
Less touching: Touching like snuggling or spooning makes your partner know that you want them near you. Touching or feeling up your partner can lead to you both running to the bedroom and undressing yourself. Touching is directly correlated to emotion, happiness in a relationship and intimacy.
Kissing without tongue: In a long-term relationship, kissing with your tongue shows interest and passion. There is nothing hot or passionate about a little playground peck.
Leaning away: If you are trying to hide your disinterest in a relationship, leaning away is a direct give away. As in pretty much everything, each relationship is different. Leaning away or leaning back could be a normal habit for one’s partner so it doesn’t come off as doom and gloom.
When meeting up with someone from Talk121’s local chat lines you don’t want to do any of these body language no-no’s. You can only make a first impression once, so try and avoid being sluggish, leaning away and not making eye contact while trying to get to know your caller. Don’t be shy and use some tongue when kissing, it’s only going to lead to more fun.