For many people, a sense of consistency helps keep them grounded. Most of the population of the planet seems to have certain things that they do in very specific ways. For many, it is most easily seen in the organization of the day. Wake up. Breakfast. Brush your teeth. Go to work.
A sense of consistency helps make things easier to remember and give a more predictable path through the day, as well as through familiar situations. Using the same concepts, you can improve your phone dating life.
Here are some ideas on things you can do consistently that can help with dating:
Say what you mean and mean what you say.
The gist of all of this advice is that creating some consistency in your life, when it comes to your partners or potential dates, is valuable. An essential consistency that you can bring to the table is being honest about your feelings and emotions. Be polite, but also make sure the words that are coming out of your mouth are words that you mean. By making sure that they match your intentions, you will foster better relationships with the people around you. Make sure to have a focus on that as well.
Set up a weekly phone call or date night.
When people decide to do this, they need to do their best to be consistent and prioritize it. Otherwise, it can have the opposite effect as intended. Most people enjoy certain amounts of quality time, and a weekly phone call or date night is a perfect way to not only have something to look forward to, but also have something scheduled and already set up. Keep date night or weekly phone calls free of distraction as much as possible for the maximum possible positive effect.
